Wednesday, September 4, 2019

Taking Selflessness Too Far

These are the first two paragraphs of this book review:

The ego, a necessary construction, can also become a burden. In its unrelenting focus on power, achievement and sensual gratification, it breeds a culture, both inner and outer, of oppression, insecurity, addiction and loneliness. Enough is never enough. There is always someone richer, more accomplished and more successful than you are. Spiritual traditions across the world have offered counsel. The happiness that comes from accumulation is fleeting, they remind us. There is another kind of happiness, let’s call it joy, that comes from helping others.
David Brooks has a feel for the serenity such a passion can bring. He dubs it the second mountain. While self-satisfaction is the first mountain’s primary goal, gratitude, delight and kindness spring from a life devoted to service. “In the cherry blossom’s shade,” a Japanese haiku reminds us, “there’s no such thing as a stranger.” Surrender of self awakens love and connection.
That second paragraph sounds like something that could be used to try to make women contented with their traditional roles of being just supportive of men. It also reminded me of what I've read about Shel Silverstein's The Giving Tree, not necessarily specifically as in this book review that I found via Wikipedia:
But a few years later, as Nordstrom slyly recalled in a New York Times interview, "the body twitched" and sales of "The Giving Tree" soared, spurred by word of mouth from, of all quarters, Protestant ministers and Sunday-school teachers, who embraced the book as a cogent restatement of the Christian ideal of unconditional love.
By contrast, the Jewish ideal of love isn't totally unconditional. As Hillel put it,
אִם אֵין אֲנִי לִי, מִי לִי? וּכְשֶׁאֲנִי לְעַצְמִי, מָה אֲנִי?
 Devotion to humanity is desirable, maybe even obligatory. Just as long as you remember that you are one of the humans that you need to be devoted to. "Devotion" normally does not mean "sacrifice".

Tuesday, July 30, 2019

Who Is Tom Bombadil?

When I heard that Stephen Colbert listens every evening to 15 minutes of a professor talking about Lord of the Rings, I went on line to look for the professor. He's Corey Olsen of Signum University. I have started catching up at the "Exploring The Lord Of The Rings With the Tolkien Professor" You Tube page. I skip the "field trips" because I'm not interested in them. I'm interested in the text. And today, in Episode 30, I finally got up to the question that I wanted to hear other people's answers to: What is Tom Bombadil?

And in the course of the discussion, it struck me that everybody, including Professor Olsen, is reading the first relevant passage wrong. Here is that passage:
'Fair Lady!' said Frodo again, after a while. 'Tell me, if my asking does not seem foolish, who is Tom Bombadil?'
'He is,' said Goldberry, staying her swift movements and smiling.
Everybody, including Professor Olsen, reads "He is" with the emphasis on the "is". BTW, that is the origin of the crazy delusion, debunked by Tolkien himself, that Tom Bombadil is Iluvatar. "He is" should be read with the emphasis on "He". Which is why Frodo is confused. Frodo already knows that that guy with the long beard who is taking care of the ponies is named "Tom Bombadil". As Professor Olsen points out, what Frodo meant, and what everybody who analyzes this stuff really means, is "what is Tom Bombadil", not "who is Tom Bombadil?"

Update on 6/8/19. In Episode 31, starting at about 30:30, Professor Olsen discusses the emphasis question.  He still puts the stress on "is" but his interpretation of Goldberry's answer is similar to my interpretation with the emphasis on "he".

How Can You Tell If a Poem is Good or Bad?

The 31 March New York Times Book Review had two letters about an essay published in the 24 February issue.

Here is the first letter:

David Orr's column On Poetry (Feb. 24) may be right about alcoholism and the dangers of drunk driving but Orr's attempted ticketing of Charles Bukowski would have greatly amused the poet. The opinions of respectable literary critics were of zero interest to him, but the fact that someone at the New York Times is attacking him 25 years after his death is evidence that he is having the last laugh. That his current publisher should exploit his popularity by reissuing much of his prodigious output is mere marketing.
Bukowski's entire project as a writer was in opposition or indifference to the standards of poetry deemed worthy of prestigious publications. He published in obscure little magazines and in John Martin's independent Black Sparrow Press. He thrived in those marginal places and was embraced by countless readers bored with most of what passed for accomplished verse. His writing will outlast the complaints of scandalized mandarins.

Here is the second letter:

David Orr writes eloquent, amusing and circuitously disapproving commentary on the retching doggerel by Charles Bukowski, whose reputation far exceeds his literary accomplishments. I agree with almost everything Orr describes so well, and his placement of Bukowski's modus operandi within a certain tradition - however dishonorable - is useful, up to a point.
But I do wish Or had simply said more bluntly what needs to be said: that Bukowski remains a thoroughly self-indulgent and odious degenerate whose drunken excursions into the world of poetry were grotesque abuses of the literary form. That we have publishers mining the dregs of his work for another book because he has this roguish reputation further degrades serious literature and insults those who care about poetry of real merit.

So was Bukowski a good poet or a bad poet? Are Bukowski's poems good or bad? You can tell good engineering from bad engineering. Good engineering works. Bad engineering doesn't work. You can tell good mathematics from bad mathematics. In good mathematics, the theorems follow logically from the axioms. In bad mathematics, they don't. You can tell good science from bad science. Good science explains natural phenomena or experimental observations. Bad science doesn't. This is true in almost all of STEM. The exceptions tend to be on the cutting edge. Like whether a mathematician accepts the axiom of choice seems to be a matter of taste. Like is there a ninth planet far out in the Oort Cloud? Unless Charles Bukowski is an outlier, poetry is different.

Poetry may be just a matter of taste, like the axiom of choice. Or like food and drink are matters of taste. Many people like alcohol. I don't like alcohol. I don't like what it does to my brain. Now, there are poems that I like. A therapist once asked me if there are any poetic writings (the Hebrew word was "שירה") that bring me to tears. I named The Rime of the Ancient Mariner and על כל אלה. The specific verses of The Rime of the Ancient Mariner are


O happy living things! no tongue
Their beauty might declare:
A spring of love gushed from my heart,
And I blessed them unaware:
Sure my kind saint took pity on me,
And I blessed them unaware.

The self-same moment I could pray;
And from my neck so free
The Albatross fell off, and sank
Like lead into the sea.

 I also admit unashamedly that my favorite poet is Dr. Seuss. My main criterion for judging poetry (and all art for that matter) is that good poetry has to be fun. Everything else is secondary.

So if the only criterion for good art vs. bad art is do you like it or don't you like it, why do we force students to learn the literary subset thereof? Or, more precisely, why do we test students on it if there are no right or wrong answers? What is there to test for? The only answer I can come up with is cultural literacy. Take some works of your own culture that are generally considered great (they need not be universally considered great) and teach the students the tools to understand them. This is hard to teach properly. Beyond understanding the basic literal meaning, there are no right or wrong answers, unlike in e.g. arithmetic where the number you get at the end is either right or wrong. For anything interpretive, the student has to be tested on how well his/her interpretation matches the text and how well s/he defends his/her interpretation. The teacher has to grade the student according to rhetorical skill, and ignore whether the student agrees with the teacher's own interpretation.

This assumes that teaching cultural literacy is valuable. The value of cultural literacy to the teacher is totally subjective. Teaching cultural literacy is valuable to the extent that perpetuating the culture is valuable. I should return to this topic in the contexts of teaching Judaica to Hiloni students in Israel and not requiring Haredim to learn the full core curriculum, just English and mathematics (or maybe English and STEM; biology can be taught to Haredim the way young Earth creationists do it in the US).

Sunday, July 28, 2019

Why the Eponymous Descendants of Israel Ben Isaac are Still Here 3500 Years Later

This is a quote from a short book review in the 7 April 2019 New York Times Book Review. The book is about a tribe that hunts sperm whales.

And yet, like so much else at this moment, Lamaleran society is being threatened from all sides - by the rise of commercial fishing operations, the decline of the very animals they depend upon, politicians who value econmic growth above all else and the desire of tribal youth (in particular the girls) for a life with fewer restrictions,

Part of the explanation of the persistence of the Jews (the remaining Israelites) is that our tribal identity does not depend on our means of livelihood. 3500 years ago we were shepherds. 2500 years ag we were farmers. 1000 years ago we were merchants. Now we do STEM.

Wednesday, July 3, 2019

השקרים של הרבנות

לפני שבוע, הרבנות פרסמה את הסרטון הזה. הוא מלא שקרים, כדהלן:

0:35
"למה לא תגש לרב?"
למה לא תחפס בעצמך באינטרנט?

1:10
החופה מסמלת את ביתו של החתן, שלתוכו נכנסת הכלה כקניינו.

1:40
"לקדש"
זה לאסור על הכלה יחסי מין עם גבר אחר, בלי לסים שום הגבלות על החתן.

2:15
הטבעת עדיין גם אות לקניין הנישואין.

2:30
...והוא אינו מקודש לה

3:20
בפועל אין לכתובה שום משמעות אם חס וחלילה בני הזוג מתפרדים.

Thursday, May 9, 2019

קטניות בפסח

חתני שלח לי את הלינק הזה למאמר של הרב אורן דובדבני בנושא של קטניות בפסח. זה מה שכתבתי לו בתגובה:

קראתי את מאמרו של הרב דובדבני,
https://www.ynet.co.il/articles/0,7340,L-5499152,00.html, ששלחת לי בחול מועד. בגדול, הוא צודק. יש פרטים שאני חולק עליו בהם, כדהלן...

"למנהגים יש מסלול משלהם - ברגע שמנהג התחיל,  אי אפשר להתיר אותו."

זה מחלוקת ראשונים, מבוסס על סיפור במסכת פסחים דף נ' עמוד ב'. זה תרגומו של הרב שטיינזלץ:

בני בית שאן היו נוהגים שלא היו הולכים מצור לצידון בערב שבת. באו בניהם לפני רבי יוחנן ואמרו לו: אבותינו אפשר היה להם; אנחנו אי אפשר לנו. אמר להם: כבר קיבלו אבותיכם עליהם, שנאמר: "שמע בני מוסר אביך ואל תטש תורת אמך" (משלי פרק א' פסוק ח').

ב"עין משפט - נר מצוה" על העמוד, יש מראה מקום ל"טור שלחן ערוך" אבל לא לרמב"ם. זה סימן שהרמב"ם אינו פוסק כרבי יוחנן שאסור לבטל מנהג אבות, אלא הוא פוסק שבדרך כלל מוטר לבטל מנהג אבות. ה"שלחן ערוך" פוסק כרבי יוחנן שאסור לבטל מנהג אבות. למרות שהרב יוסף קארו ("המחבר") פוסק ככה, הוא מצטט בספרו "בית יוסף" ראשונים אחרים שמתירים ביטול מנהג אבות על ידי הטרת נדרים.

הרב דובדבני מצטט את המנהג לשמור יום טוב שני בחו"ל כדוגמה לעיקרון שאסור לבטל מנהג. לפי הרמב"ם, המנהג הזה הוא אחד מן היוצאים מן הכלל ואי אפשר להסיק ממנו שאסור לבטל שום מנהג. זה לשון הרמב"ם, בהלכות קידוש החודש, פרק ה' הלכה ה':

"בזמן הזה שאין שם סנהדרין ובית דין של ארץ ישראל קובעין על חשבון זה. היה מן הדין שיהיו בכל המקומות עושין יום טוב אחד בלבד אפילו המקומות הרחוקות שבחוצה לארץ כמו בני ארץ ישראל. שהכל על חשבון אחד סומכין וקובעין. אבל תקנת חכמים הוא שיזהרו במנהג אבותיהם שבידיהם."

כלומר, יום טוב שני של גלויות איננו סתם מנהג, אלא תקנת חכמים.

אף על פי שאני שומר מנהג איסור קטניות בפסח (יש דברים הרבה יותר חשובים שצריכים תיקון, וזה רק שבוע אחד בלי קטניות), אני מלמד זכות על האשכנזים שביטלו את המנהג. במחלוקת בהלכה דרבנן הולכים לקולא, והרמב"ם הוא דעת יחיד חשוב,

נחזור לדברי הרב דובדבן.

"...יהודי מזרח אירופה...הרחיבו את ההוראה שלא לאכול קטניות לבוטנים, למשל, שהם בוודאות לא קטניות."

נכון! אין שום טעם לכלול באיסור קטניות צמחים שיהודי אשכנז לא הכירו בזמן שהם אימצו את המנהג. הצמחים שאין לכלול באיסור כוללים לא רק בוטנים, אלא גם, למשל, סויה. חוץ מזה, אין לאסור נוזלים שמפיקים מקטניות. בעיקרון יש להטיר גם תירס, אלא שתירס הוא סוג של דגן ולכן זה סביר לאסור קמח תירס, אבל לא לאסור קלחי תירס.

בסוף דבריו: "שכל אחד ישאל את רבותיו." זה סימן שהוא רב אורתודוקסי. אני הייתי כותב "שכל אחד יתייעץ עם רבותיו".

Tuesday, April 16, 2019

All Jews are Mamzerim IV

In case your Hebrew isn't good enough to read Part I, this video presents pretty much the same mathematical argument. The video is directed towards proving that everyone is a descendant of royalty because everyone has a king somewhere in his or her family tree. The same logic shows that all Jews are mamzerim because every Jew has a mamzer or a mamzeret somewhere in his or her family tree. To show that all Europeans descend from royalty, you just have to establish that there was a king in Europe 1200 years ago. There was. Charlemagne. And to show that all Jews are mamzerim, you just have to establish that there were mamzerim among the Jews of 2400 years ago. And there were, according to the first mishnah of the fourth chapter of Kiddushin. And don't try to use this frame of the video:
to claim that all the mamzerim and mamzerot are over on the left. There is no reason to expect the mamzerim and the mamzerot to not be distributed uniformly across the whole population.

Added 7/5/19: This Numberphile video makes the same point.